Happy Holiday Season, Party People! This is the ninth post in my 12 days celebration! What better way to celebrate Capitalism than posting reviews where you can purchase these fine items with my affiliate links? 1st post: The"Fun Factory Laya II 2nd post: Indigo is Non-Monogamous! 3rd post: The Packer Gear Jock Strap! 4th post: … Continue reading Indigo Plays Favorites with Companies!
So I recently saw another blogger discussing BDSM and how it helps them to process some of their previous trauma. This is something that I knew was possible because I have a similar experience. When I do a scene, I feel whole for a little while after. I feel more prepared for the world and … Continue reading Indigo Explores: BDSM in a Therapy Context
10 out of 10 Pairs nicely with a good draft beer. There's a huge amount of variety. Sometimes, it takes some getting used to the taste (especially in those microbreweries). And how long you nurse it depends on you. I want to start this post off by saying that I use the words "vanilla" and … Continue reading Indigo Explores: Kink Dynamics and Communication in Them!
This is another personal essay that I have poured some heart and soul into. These types of posts are common as I travel, because I'm often spending time by myself. These things are healthy for me to reflect on. By writing them (even in the throes of emotion), I hope to either open a dialogue, … Continue reading What Happens When Your Femininity Doesn’t Fit the Script?
Trigger warning: Talk of deep depression, brief mentions of fat-shaming. This article is a late-night musing. I hope that it gives you a new idea of how my brain works, and I hope you can use this idea to relate to others. If this model works for you, I highly encourage you to use it too. … Continue reading The DepressiOnion
10 out of 10 This pairs nicely with a good light beer. If you're trash like me, you use a domestic like Budweiser. But if you're classier (god I hope so), then any light craft beer will do nicely. It has that sneaking up on you, prolonged effect. Great for a day when you have … Continue reading Indigo Tries Edging!
Not a review! Op ed pieces don't have ratings from me! So I am currently post-break-up with my longest-term partner, and I'm in a lot of pain and self-reflection. In the middle of one long conversation late at night, I had a revelation about my life and the folx who come through as partners. My … Continue reading Being “Good For You” and “Good To You” are Different Things